gender isn't an issue for me either.  still planning to put in probably on sawbill on the 18th and generally work my way northward in a counterclockwise loop coming out on the 1st of october.  can't start any earlier as it is a 1400 mile drive for me and i'll be leaving NC on the 15th.  would love to meet and trip with some new friends.  however, i'll certainly understand if you guys need to start earlier.  possible to still meet up in the B.