It is indeed it is about learning boundaries, the point that I am trying to make is one in regards to not beating the biochemical one, the physiology of it all and the inherit limitations in it ;) Expecting the unexpected is a good thing, as is the thought process that comes with dialog...define the "boy scout" as you wish to do so that is about you as it should be and it will receive no acrimony or disdain from these parts; what ever floats your boat ;)It is about audience and how I felt one of my stories related to this thread and how easy it is for some to get in their own way (inclusive); make of it what you want.