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Once a year, near their birthday, I have a one-on-one date with each of them, doing something that they like.  Pro sporting events, camping, horseback riding, museum, concerts, theater, and quite a few others.  These are some of the best times, and I don't go along reluctantly, I have a blast doing the things they like; and then most of them are eager to put up with me on a hike or in a canoe.  Not a bad life for an old man.

Dude, I want your life when I'm older (i.e. have grandkids).

"Not a bad life" indeed.

If every father and grandfather took such an interest, our crime rate, dropout rate, illegal drug use rate, welfare rate, etc. etc. would be sharply reduced.

-- kypaddler