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she promised to never touch the canoe trip because its a 'tradition.' she likes the outdoors, fishing and canoeing, but cant do it for as many hours on end as i can.   i actually have tried the % of shoe money for fishing stuff. i got a big old 'yeah right' as she bought her wedding shoes on my card.   Back to top

I'd get that " promise" in writing and witnessed by a notary public.
I suggest you contact Wally, and get yourself another card, since she has access to yours now.
It's called a MAN-CARD. You can tuck it away in your wallet for when the honeymoon is over and she wants "new" traditions to take the place of " old ones" ::)