Selfish? Aren't we all? We deserve it damn it.  8-)

I'm all for minimizing risk while doing what you wanna do and to me personally, price point is a hurdle I have no desire to broach knowing that something would be a gadget I'd not want to use anyway ... but then, I don't share your wanderlust at this point in my life. So, if my wife asked forcefully? I'd give her a hug and say I love you too dear.

Until then, a detailed itinerary works well for us but my kid is younger so I feel an obligation to not be quite as adventurous ... risk, as in no return is no longer an option I'm willing to accept - for a few more years anyway. ;)