Tandem vs solo.........now I've done it! (again)

One of those cases where everyone is right.........and everyone is wrong.

I get where Jim is coming from........ 2 paddlers having such an effect on a boat that it seems that they are really one.

But this thread is about "match making" and I am about 90% on Martens side. I'm trying to envision one person on the planet with whom I want to spend every waking moment with on extended canoe trip. I can only really think of one and He walked on water. (Although I would certainly make an exception for a really rigorous and potentially dangerous trip like an Arctic trip)

I suppose the thing for folk to do is to honestly evaluate just what they are going to the woods for in the first place. In spite of our overly connected world I would argue that people are more lonely and alone in this age than ever before. As a consequence many paddlers are looking forward to the social aspect of tripping.

Others may be seeking a respite from continual social interaction. From the demands of family, friends and business pressures.

What I do know is this.......if your going to do a tandem trip you better be darn sure that you have a compatible partner because there is no walking away if someone rubs you the wrong way. I have been fortunate that all my tandem trips have been done with lifelong friends......I will admit that the tandem trips have had the effect of increasing the bonds of friendship so there is certainly something to be said for tandem canoeing provided you have a match.

But I'm stayin with group solo as the best overall experience. One day I would like to go with a large group.......never done that. Could be fun!