Yes, the Willow Flowage can get crowded.  Another option is the Turtle-Flambeau Flowage farther west.  It's much bigger and has a LOT more campsites.  There's also a motorless area on the east side of it.  Here's a link to the DNR website:
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You might also consider the Chippewa Flowage, still farther west:
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