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Message started by Jimbo on Feb 18th, 2021 at 4:22am

Title: DentonDoc
Post by Jimbo on Feb 18th, 2021 at 4:22am
Fellow QJers, please keep DentonDoc in your prayers.  A few days ago, he slipped on his icy driveway down in Texas.  He had a bad fall, whacking his head pretty hard.  He has been in ICU ever since. My understanding is that he's in pretty rough shape. 

I don't have any more information right now but I'll post what I can as we become aware of any developments.

Jimbo  8-)

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Post by solotripper on Feb 18th, 2021 at 4:48am
That's terrible news.
Prayers for him and his family.

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Post by Spartan2 on Feb 18th, 2021 at 12:23pm
Oh, I am so sorry to hear this news!  I will be praying every day for DD and hoping that you will post updates as he recovers.


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Post by BillConner on Feb 18th, 2021 at 12:30pm
My thoughts and prayers for DD.

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Post by Magicpaddler on Feb 18th, 2021 at 12:45pm
DD we are all hopping for the best.   

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Post by pine_knot on Feb 18th, 2021 at 1:36pm
Jen and I send our thoughts and prayers to DentonDoc and family and our hope he has a quick and full recovery....

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Post by TomT on Feb 18th, 2021 at 3:31pm
Yes, this is very sad news. Hopefully he's in great hands. Will be praying for his full recovery.

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Post by Westwood on Feb 19th, 2021 at 4:17am
Sad news indeed.  I send my wishes for a good recovery.  It is also a reminder that we need to live life to its fullest because you never know when the opportunity for that trip will be taken from you.

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Post by PhantomJug on Feb 19th, 2021 at 5:04am
:'(  Are there any financial needs that you know of, Jimbo?

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Post by mpeebles on Feb 19th, 2021 at 11:11am
Sad.  Very sad.  Wishing Wayne the best.  You can do this DD!!

.......Mike 

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Post by portage dog on Feb 19th, 2021 at 1:34pm
Hey all, Jimbo's having QJ access issues, so I'm posting an update he received last night on DD.  Yesterday DD was able to eat a full meal and was somewhat more cognizant of what was going on.  However, there was still swelling they were concerned about. 

It's looking better, but still keep those prayers coming.  PJ, Jimbo hasn't mentioned anything about financial needs, but I'm sure he'll advise once he has access to QJ again and maybe a more current update as he's been in touch with Mrs. DD.

pd

Title: Re: DentonDoc
Post by Jimbo on Feb 21st, 2021 at 2:36pm
PD,

Thanks for "filling in" while I was "away."

PJ,

Sorry for the slow response.  Like at least a few of you that I know about, my access to QJ over the past 3 days has been nil.

No, I am unaware of any financial need.  DD is on pretty solid footing there, I believe.  Should I learn otherwise, I'll get back to you.

All,

Looks like DD's challenges will be considerable.  Frontal lobe "bruising" limits his cognitive abilities, though the doctors remain hopeful for his recovery.  He will require substantial neural therapy, it appears. 

Fortunately, DD's spouse has been able to stay with him in the hospital.  I believe their daughter is now able to provide some relief with that demanding role, too.  I can only imagine how much a drain such a happenstance can have on a family.

In short, the family remains guardedly hopeful for an eventual full recovery.  I suspect this will be a slow process.

I'll share what I can as information becomes available.  DD's wife has been very kind to take time out to respond to my (and Wally13's) inquiries.  I'm quite certain your continuing thoughts & prayers are very much welcomed.

Jimbo   8-)


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Post by Old Salt on Feb 22nd, 2021 at 2:12pm
I’ve been away from QJ for a while and just saw this terrible news. I will be praying for Wayne and his family. Brain injuries usually are long slow recoveries. Thanks for sharing! As we age, one member reporting for another may become more common.

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Post by azalea on Feb 22nd, 2021 at 4:49pm
Sad news. Thoughts and prayers for a full recovery.

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Post by HighnDry on Feb 22nd, 2021 at 5:54pm
We'll continue to hope and pray for DD's speedy recovery!

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Post by Spartan2 on Feb 22nd, 2021 at 6:36pm
Thanks, Jimbo, for updating us yesterday.  I just saw it this morning.  Like you, we were "off" the messageboard for several days.  I don't think I realized how seeing the POD to start my morning every day was something I would miss so much!

Sorry to hear that DD is having these issues and he and his family will remain in my prayers for a long time to come.  Appreciate the updates and if you could post a snail-mail address I would like to send a note and a card.

Watch your footing, folks!  A fall can be a very dangerous thing sometimes.


Title: Re: DentonDoc
Post by solotripper on Feb 23rd, 2021 at 4:28pm
Like others here I just got back on this morning.

  Glad to hear DD is coming along even if it's a slow process. Had a close friend take a bad fall 15 yrs ago while he was rollerblading. He bought all the safety gear for his wife/2 kids but skimped on getting a helmet for himself. He was a local roller rink regular, could do all the fancy moves and dance too. That didn't help him at all.

  He's back to normal now but it was a long slow process. DD is a fighter, he'll do all he can to get back to what he loves.

Just goes to show you can't plan for everything or always see danger coming.

All those years DD backpacked/canoed and avoided serious injury and he's done in by some frozen water.

Blessings on him and his family.

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Post by Jimbo on Feb 25th, 2021 at 2:14am
All,

Well, DentonDoc has had some new swelling.  This required brain surgery, to which he appears to be responding somewhat well.  Though his response times are slow, he recognizes "family" and can respond to commands via "hand squeezes", etc.  He & his family will continue to welcome your thoughts and prayers as his will be a long road ahead via traumatic brain injury rehab.

Mrs. DentonDoc has been kind enough to share a link for a site on "Caring Bridge" where you may find updates.  It is:   (You need to Login or Register .

PJ, I've been assured that DD's insurance is covering their needs thus far.  Again, if I hear differently, I'll post something.

Mrs. DentonDoc has expressed her sincere gratitude for the caring, prayers and support of DD's friends here on QJ.

FYI

Jimbo    :'(

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Post by mpeebles on Feb 25th, 2021 at 10:33am
Jimbo, thanks for the update.

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Post by MuleLars on Feb 25th, 2021 at 4:23pm
This is the first I've logged on for a while. So shocked to see this news. All of my prayers are with Wayne and his family.

Sounds like he's in good hands.

I will keep him in my thoughts.
ml

Update - I went out to the Caring Bridge site. When I was setting up my account, the CAPTCHA screen asked me to identify pictures of boats. It seems so fitting.  :'(

Title: Re: DentonDoc
Post by Jimbo on Feb 28th, 2021 at 4:44am
Mrs. DentonDoc posted some positive news on their Caring Bridge website.  DD has shown enough improvement to be moved out of ICU and into a rehab hospital.  A lot of hard work and healing will have to happen before he returns to us on QJ but he is starting down the right path.

Again, all who wish to follow his progress may follow this link to his Caring Bridge site:   (You need to Login or Register .

Jimbo   8-)

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Post by pine_knot on Feb 28th, 2021 at 5:30am
Thx, Jimbo.  That is really welcome news!!  Jen and I are thinking of him every day and hoping for the best.....

PK.

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Post by HighnDry on Feb 28th, 2021 at 2:41pm
Thanks Jimbo! I've been checking his caring bridge site almost daily just to see any updates. This is good news on the whole. We will continue to wish a speedy recovery. Can we get together a QJ card or something to be sent where he is rehabbing?

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Post by Magicpaddler on Mar 1st, 2021 at 11:54am
Maybe every picture we can find of him. Especially on trips.  I only have a few.  We could print them and mail them to him.

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Post by Jackfish on Mar 2nd, 2021 at 7:26pm
Following this thread on two boards now.  Can't believe I missed the earlier posts.  Prayers for a strong and full recovery.  There's lots of paddling to do yet!

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Post by db on Mar 2nd, 2021 at 8:58pm
When I first I met DD, he mentioned he'd be in town and I picked him up at some downtown hotel and promptly took him to Wolski's tavern. He didn't flinch as I recall..

Months afterwards, my wife was still having great fun when people asked where's Dave. She'd say: "I don't know, probably at some bar with some guy he met on the internet again."

I'm not positive but I'm fairly certain I never took my wife to Wolski's. Shit happens to good people sometimes too.

Prayers and good thoughts never hurt anyone either to my knowledge.

I still think it could of happened in a worse place so I'm very grateful he went down in his own driveway.

Title: Re: DentonDoc
Post by Jimbo on Mar 7th, 2021 at 9:43pm
All,

DD's wife has posted an update indicating he is now making some meaningful progress.  See:   (You need to Login or Register; .  FYI

Hooray!

Jimbo   8-)

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Post by jimmar on Mar 7th, 2021 at 10:14pm
I’ve been away from here and this is the first I’m reading about it. Sad to read but glad he’s making progress. I never met him personally but always enjoyed reading his posts and PM’d with him a few times. I missed meeting up with him on Cirrus lake two years ago due to our early exit because my son broke his hand.

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Post by TomT on Mar 7th, 2021 at 11:35pm
Good to know he's making progress.   :)

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Post by mpeebles on Mar 10th, 2021 at 1:34am
Great news concerning DD. 

DB.....never been to Wolski's but I think I saw it featured on some WI PBS show?  If memory serves it's been around like...forever?

Title: Re: DentonDoc
Post by db on Mar 10th, 2021 at 4:39pm

Jimbo wrote on Mar 7th, 2021 at 9:43pm:
All,

DD's wife has posted an update indicating he is now making some meaningful progress.  See:   (You need to Login or Register .  FYI

Hooray!

Jimbo   8-)

Doh! I clicked that link today, got an error page and thought, cool, DD is all better now.

Then I thought, wait, maybe I screwed something up while rebuilding the forum.

Turned out it was Jimbo who caused my "confusion and focus" issues. ;)

  (You need to Login or Register

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Post by Phoenix on Mar 12th, 2021 at 11:29am
Like some others, I have not been to the forum here in a long time and was shocked to read about DentonDoc. As was said by Jimmar, "I never met him personally but always enjoyed reading his posts". I'm keeping him and his family in my thoughts and wish him a full and speedy recovery.

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Post by Jimbo on Mar 15th, 2021 at 3:33am
All -

More good news!  Another update on DD's progress.  See:   (You need to Login or Register

Jimbo   8-)

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Post by db on Apr 7th, 2021 at 2:31pm
4/3 update:
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Post by solotripper on Apr 7th, 2021 at 3:17pm
DD is a tough guy. Not surprised he's bouncing back strong.

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Post by DentonDoc on Apr 19th, 2021 at 4:45pm
Hello everyone and many thanks for the thoughts and prayers sent my way. 

I've been out of the hospital for about a week now so I feel certain that the most critical stages of my recovery toward survival are over.

To explain the "accident...  On February 12th,there was a major ice storm in my area.  Not unheard of in central Texas, but not unusual.  As I was setting at my office desk facing the street, I noticed one of my lady neighbors out walking her dog.  As she got directing in front of my house, down she went.  Concerned for her safety, I quickly donned some appropriate clothing and went out to assist.  By that time a couple of other neighbors who had witnessed her fall had gathered and together we got her to her feet, and convinced that she had no injuries, we assisted her on her way.

I remained outside for a few more minutes, chatting with my neighbors before the conversation ended and all returned to their homes.  I wanted to check out the icing in front of my house, so I remained for a few more minutes. 

The next thing I remember is waking up in the hospital 3 weeks later.  Apparently, I had slipped and fallen in the street, crushing my skull.  My next door neighbor noticed me lying there at some point and assisted me into my house (none of which I remember). 

Emergency services were called and in a matter of minutes I was on my way to a hospital specializing in brain injuries. (This is one advantage of living near a major metropolitan area.)  The doctors decided that the best immediate course of action was to open my skull to allow for the brain swelling that would certainly follow.  in a few days in which more swelling was detected, they decided to remove sections of of skull.  Of course, sections of my brain were attached to the skull, so they were removed as well and placed in a freezer to minimize deterioration awaiting future replacement.  It was during this stage my "lights came back on.  I must admit that I wasn't making a lot of sense at first, but I was recognizing family and understood I was in a hospital  And thus began my first recovery therapy sessions.  These were meager at first, but ramped up in the days that followed until I was able to walk the hospital hallway and eat most meals in a dining room with a little assistance.

The third surgery was about 2 weeks after the second, after MRI's and CT's to insure my parts still fit my head.  The good news is that they did, so they were replaced (along with a titanium plate and screws) so the shape of my head was more like a human that the creature from the lost lagoon.

The therapy sessions kicked up another notch and more cognitive tasks were introduced.  I found that I tended to tire quickly during longer sessions, so they scaled back  to shorter duration activities. 

Even, with obvious limitations, all the staff echoed the same theme:  remarkable recover given the extent of injuries.

I still have lots of therapy sessions ahead o me, but I'm not doing things that were well beyond my abilities just a couple of week ago. 

The brain is an interesting organ with amazing potential.  I can tell that some of the sections that were "disconnected are now beginning to knit new pathways to allow me to function a higher levels each day.

Yes, I have a long way to go, but every day is a clear step forward.

Again, thank you for your thoughts and prayers.  I feel certain that whey were instrumental in turning what could have been and end-of-life scenario to one that hat a promising future.

And, thanks for your concern about financial support.  We happen to be blessed with an excellent health plan.  It has covered all our hospital and medical and pharmacy bills to date and it is paying for all of my therapy sessions (both at home and in medical facilities).

So, While I'm in no shape to take a canoeing trip this season.  I'm not ruling out next year!

Keep paddling, my friends!

Wayne

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Post by solotripper on Apr 19th, 2021 at 4:52pm
You have a can-do attitude DD, that goes a long way when you fall "down" and have to get back-up.  [smiley=thumbsup.gif]

I've taken a few hard falls here in MI during the winter on that dreaded Black Ice.

  The only thing that saved me was I was wearing a heavy winter stocking cap that cushioned the blow.
Even then I still had an egg-sized knot on the back of my head.

  I have no doubt you'll be back paddling in the near future.

 

Title: Re: DentonDoc
Post by Jimbo on Apr 19th, 2021 at 6:20pm
It's good to have you back with us, DD!  Thanks for ending the suspense and giving this thread a happy ending!

Jimbo   8-)

P.S.  I have ice cleats that can be slipped over one's boots (size 13).  They have served me well for many years.  I don't expect to need them where I'm headed.  Would be happy to mail them to Texas....

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Post by Spartan2 on Apr 19th, 2021 at 7:01pm
So good to hear from you DD.  You have been in our prayers for a long time now, and we are thankful that you had such a positive outcome from a negative experience.  Best wishes as you continue your recovery and get stronger every day.

The Spartans, Lynda and Neil

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Post by Solus on Apr 19th, 2021 at 7:26pm
Welcome back! Thrilled that you posted. Congratulations.

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Post by portage dog on Apr 19th, 2021 at 8:37pm
Wayne!  Sooo good to hear from you directly and to know that you continue to recover and improve.  Keep up the great rehab work and know you and Jan continue to be in our thoughts.  Looking forward to seeing you on the water - and maybe even an in-person Canoecopia next year!

pd

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Post by HighnDry on Apr 19th, 2021 at 8:45pm
DD, Glad to hear that you are on the mend. You have a resilient noggin! Look forward to toasting your good health at the next 'Copia  ;)

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Post by pine_knot on Apr 20th, 2021 at 12:05am
Glad your getting better, dd....slow and steady progress is a good thing ....sorta like the way we paddle and portage nowadays....hope to see you in a canoe next season...   8-)

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Post by BillConner on Apr 20th, 2021 at 10:54am
So happy you're back DD!  Hope your recovery is speedy.

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Post by Magicpaddler on Apr 20th, 2021 at 12:17pm
Glad to hear about the progress.  Hope to see you on another canoe trip.

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Post by Marten on Apr 20th, 2021 at 5:28pm
Fantastic to hear from you Wayne. Maybe a nice plane ride and basecamp trip to Atikaki would be a good easing back into the routine.

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Post by azalea on Apr 20th, 2021 at 8:17pm
Great news !!!  Maybe I need to think about wearing my bike helmet when I tackle snow/ice on my VERY steep driveway.

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Post by db on Apr 21st, 2021 at 2:50pm
Very glad to hear you're getting things unscrambled, DD. You had us all worried.

PROTECT YOUR HEAD next time!

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Post by zski on Apr 21st, 2021 at 5:54pm
SO GOOD to hear things are coming together DD!

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Post by PhantomJug on Apr 21st, 2021 at 10:35pm
Great to hear.   [smiley=thumbsup.gif] [smiley=thumbsup.gif] [smiley=thumbsup.gif]

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Post by MuleLars on Apr 22nd, 2021 at 2:16pm
Great to hear from you, Wayne!!!! Your resilience and positive attitude are truly inspiring.

And like everyone else, I hope we can see you next year some time. If a base camping trip is ever planned, count me in!
ml

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Post by TomT on Apr 23rd, 2021 at 10:53pm
Good to see you're back online Wayne.  I gotta admit, I was a bit worried for you.  You're attitude is great and that will serve you well.  Hope to see you canoeing or maybe at Copia next year.   :)

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Post by Westwood on Apr 24th, 2021 at 2:04am
Great to hear that you are doing better.  This fall when I make my annual trek to Mission, TX for the winter maybe I can stop and see you.

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