Okay, talked to Walleye13 and MuleLars....Mike and Scott again.  Here's the plan.
 
As previously mentioned we're going to order pizza Friday evening.

Saturday evening's get together.....
I'll make a batch of chili for anyone that would like some.  I'll also have some crackers, chopped onions, shredded cheese, etc.

For those of you who would prefer bbq we need to know the numbers so we can order ahead of time. 

It's OK to have both.  I'm planning to have some chili and a bbq sandwich.

Looking forward.........Mike