Logic & Reason
Anything we do purely for our own enjoyment is inherently selfish. There's nothing wrong with that. Our loved ones do deserve some reasonable degree of security, we do love them after all!
I disagree that bringing SPOT/PLB/SatPhone reasonably cheapens the experience any more than kevlar, ripstop nylon, and modern shoes do. They're all just tools. If you choose not to use them, that's your right.
Non-trippers have strange ideas about the risks. The first step is to educate them. Your phobia is not my problem. You have a great chance of being killed by going to the office than I do by paddling to the next campsite. If you actually love your family and friends you'll be happy to take reasonable steps to reduce their reasonable anxiety.
I think anyone who feels these emergency exit tools cheapen the experience have yet to have a true emergency experience.
Money comes into it. I can't afford these tools. Fortunately my loved ones have reasonable worries. If/when I get to do several weeks in a very remote area with no reasonable chance of seeing anyone else I would rent a SatPhone.
Here's one very sad example. His family still has hope. Missing since November. I hope he found what he was looking for.
(You need to Login or Register to view media files and links)My float plans are emailed out with the subject, "Where to drag for my body."