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 25 Are you a selfish adventurer? (Read 30546 times)
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Re: Are you a selfish adventurer?
Reply #50 - Apr 15th, 2012 at 3:40am
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knafelc wrote on Apr 15th, 2012 at 12:11am:
-with every loss there a gain...with every gain there is a loss. I've been hoping that this whole computer/techno thing would go out of style as some bad dream/poor taste idea of the marginalized youth and antisocial neard sector.  But alas! (is that still a word ?)-hopes of that actually happening,are right up there with the hopes of the guys who at the turn of the last century,hoped that the internal combustion engine and electricity(not to mention fences), would  just please go away...


I am actually quite sympathetic to your position. I dislike MP3 players and Ipod type noise making devices as well as electronic gaming systems. These devices would have no place on my trips. In my mind they are enemies to be avoided like the plague. One has to free of such things before the serenity of wild places can have a chance to take hold. To be honest, I find it hard to achieve that stillness of soul even in large talkative groups........someone is always drowning out the sound of the wind in the trees, the dragonfly as it makes a hard turn in flight and the gentle flip of a small bass.............

Having said that I do not compare a SAT phone as obtrusive at all. Even if one makes the occasional "I'm OK" call it encompasses what perhaps a few minutes tops. Otherwise it stays tucked away. Same with the SPOT. The sending of a message (I'm OK) is not much different than the myriad of other tasks one does about camp and honestly much less than a typical camp chore.

Am I trying to justify my position. Perhaps.....I just see the communication devices as rather unobtrusive for the most part, as in "what's the big deal"? I don't "get it"........that is, the animosity. (Now if it stayed on and crackled all day like a VHF marine radio that would be totally annoying........that I could understand). 
  
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Re: Are you a selfish adventurer?
Reply #51 - Apr 16th, 2012 at 2:37am
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Peace of mind is actually a big part of why many of us seek out the wilderness. A communication device can now help and aid us in getting that. Change is something I now forget to accept at times,as it's easier to resit adaptation. Playing the infexible curmudgion and the retrogressive fool can be fun in a perverse way,but only untill you come to regret not having all of your options there when you or your loved ones need them. Excuse me for seeming to discourge you. I was just spouting off.
  
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Re: Are you a selfish adventurer?
Reply #52 - Apr 16th, 2012 at 6:07am
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knafelc wrote on Apr 16th, 2012 at 2:37am:
Peace of mind is actually a big part of why many of us seek out the wilderness. A communication device can now help and aid us in getting that.

I get the peace of mind, safety aspect but as a long time solo paddler, that would actually detract from the experience for me. Fear is never boring. My first solo was before the internet, before I even knew they made solo boats. I fully expected to be told "go home idiot" the first time they asked for the alt group leader. To me, a lot of the allure is being self sufficient, being by my self like it once was for some.

Honestly, if I ever really needed to press the help button, I wouldn't be able to or pride and the possibility of embarrassment would prevent me from doing it until it was too late. (Which wouldn't be a bad thing either I guess. They'd know where my corpse was. Wink)

To each his/her own. Cool tools but I don't even have a cell phone or the desire to be that in touch every second of the day. Leave a message at the tone. I'll get back to you when I feel like it.
  
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Re: Are you a selfish adventurer?
Reply #53 - Apr 16th, 2012 at 8:16pm
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To each his/her own. Cool tools but I don't even have a cell phone or the desire to be that in touch every second of the day. Leave a message at the tone. I'll get back to you when I feel like it.


Pretty well sums up my feelings.
  
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Re: Are you a selfish adventurer?
Reply #54 - Apr 18th, 2012 at 8:51pm
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I'm going to have go back and read this entire thread.  I had something happen recently that is making me think.  Undecided

On Monday I presented a program to our local small-town Lions Club.  They asked me to do a program with my photos and talk about our 40 years of canoe-tripping.  I spent a LOT of time preparing this program (way more than a one-hour program for 16 people probably warranted) and it was very well-received.  I wrote up a nice talk and made a Power Point slide show with about 300 photos.  They laughed in the right places of my talk and they oohed and aahed at the photos, especially some of the ones that I particularly like.  That was neat. They were very polite and saved their questions until the end, just as I had requested.  If I do say so myself, it was a good program.   Roll Eyes

But when the questions started, I was a bit taken aback.  There were just a couple about gear.  Then the main questions were along this line:  "What was the scariest moment you ever had on a canoe trip?"   "What would you do if you had an emergency?"  "Aren't you afraid to be up there where there is no help?", etc.   They are mainly a senior age group, and they think we are crazy.

Spartan1 and I fielded the questions, but after I got home I realized that I should just have said that we had far more danger each time we make the drive from mid-Michigan to Minnesota in our car with a canoe on top than we probably face on a canoe trip. 

Still. . . .now that I am turning 67 before my next trip, I am thinking that a SPOT seems like a good thing.  Spartan1 had one on his fishing trip with Ramsey last year and I did enjoy seeing that "I'm OK" message in the evening.

When I get time I'll go back and see what y'all had to say.

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Re: Are you a selfish adventurer?
Reply #55 - Apr 19th, 2012 at 4:19pm
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But when the questions started, I was a bit taken aback.  There were just a couple about gear.  Then the main questions were along this line:  "What was the scariest moment you ever had on a canoe trip?"   "What would you do if you had an emergency?"  "Aren't you afraid to be up there where there is no help?", etc.   They are mainly a senior age group, and they think we are crazy.



My late Mother was a very adventurous person while I was growing up, but I noticed as she aged and started developing physical infirmities, she became much less so.

Maybe it was all the doom and gloom news stories she watched 24/7, but she was worried about things that are so low on the list of things that could go wrong on a daily basis, it drove me crazy.

I see it now with my aging friends. I go most places alone and they just think I'm crazy as hell for doing so.
Like you, I think the drive up/back is the most dangerous part of any trip.

Still, if a SPOT/SAT gives you peace of mind in your situation, then you should do what makes you feel better Cool
  
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Re: Are you a selfish adventurer?
Reply #56 - Apr 19th, 2012 at 5:19pm
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It's not just older folks who think we're crazy for canoeing in the wilderness, especially solo.  Here in Ohio, I'm amazed how many people of varying age have similar questions and reactions experienced in Spartan2's post.  Isn't it dangerous?  What if something happens?  Aren't you afraid of dangerous or poisonous insects or animals?  What about bad storms?

As for SPOT, I've used one for several trips now.  The only issue that came up early on was the first time I couldn't get the thing to link to a satellite at a secluded campsite.  Usually my wife gets an email each night.  She said she was really worried when the email didn't come until an email came the following night.  We talked some when I returned home.  Since that one time, she now knows a day or two break in the daily emails is probably nothing....but a little worry is still there in the back of her mind. 
  
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Re: Are you a selfish adventurer?
Reply #57 - Apr 19th, 2012 at 8:56pm
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I think that is my concern about using a SPOT for "I'm OK" messages.  People begin to count on them, and they worry more if there isn't one.  Our kids (we no longer have any parents to worry) don't expect any communication from us now, so I guess I would just as soon not start a regular communication that they are expecting.

But the idea of being able to summon help does interest me.  I am not naive enough to think that help could get there in time if one of us had a heart attack or serious stroke and were in danger of imminent death.  We take that risk, and we have discussed it, decided we are willing to take the risk, and we go anyway.

But I do have a personal fear that if my husband were to die on a canoe trip (as a long-time insulin-dependent diabetic with other complications he is more statistically at risk for heart and vascular events, although his yearly tests are always good) I am neither strong enough nor physically fit enough anymore to get myself and a 17-foot canoe plus basic gear back out again.  He carries a lot of the weight for me now, and it would be a really big challenge for me to return alone.  Of course we don't go to really remote places anymore, but even so. . . .if you are five or six portages from the entry point. . . .

I always tell myself that if something dire happened, someone would paddle by in a canoe in a day or so, and I would call to them.  People in the canoe country are good people and they would help me to get back out.  Right?

But having a SPOT begins to look more practical every year.  Maybe when I turn 70.   Wink

  
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Re: Are you a selfish adventurer?
Reply #58 - Apr 19th, 2012 at 9:05pm
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Oh, and I guess I have two other things to add.

To ST:  my late mother was also adventuresome, but she was a basket case when I was out on a canoe trip.  She was convinced that something awful would happen to me.  She, however, was perfectly bold to take me, as a teenager, just the two of us to Chicago for several days of shopping and shows and dining in great restaurants--she drove, parked the car, walked all over downtown Chicago, hailed a cab, etc.  And she, a small-town woman who shocked all of her friends with her courage.  I never knew anything to scare that woman.  She told a story about clubbing a rattlesnake to death with a stick on her way home from elementary school (in Wyoming) and I believe it was true.

But yet she was always afraid for me in the canoe country.  I never could figure it out until I had children.

Pine Knot:  I know what you mean.  It hasn't been just the older people.  Most everyone we know has thought we are crazy, and thought that our method of vacationing is "dangerous".  Spartan1 has shared my photo books with his friends for years and I am always greatly amused when they tell me how courageous I am.   Wink

  
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Re: Are you a selfish adventurer?
Reply #59 - Apr 19th, 2012 at 9:38pm
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Spartan2,

I agree with you about people relying receiving the "OK" messages. I soloed Quetico L. a few years ago and had my parents and girlfriend at the time on the receiving list. Both said they were antsy if they didn't receive a message in the evening (when I planned to send them). Interestingly, they were also the folks who insisted that I buy it and use it. I don't think they had the right mindset to begin with.

If I solo again I'll probably carry the SPOT with me again but I'll try to lay down the law about not counting on receiving a message.

My whole take on it is, if it helps you or the folks at home feel more secure, bring it.
  
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