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Reply #10 - Apr 25th, 2013 at 12:46am
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Pd, and others, we enter Q on June 22. We probably won't get to Kawnipi until about June 25. We plan to do some daytripping while on Kawnipi, so if anyone is in the area, keep your eyes open. If you let us know your plan, we will watch for you. We exit Q on July 3.

I know of several other QJers, who haven't chimed in on this thread who regularly travel together. I did a trip back in 06 that was eight QJers, most of whom I had not met previously. We connected initially via PM, exchanged emails, and an email chain was the method of planning the trip. There were also a few phone calls made just to make sure we were all on the same page. I met one of the members when he drove to my place to spend the night prior to the trip. That is when the plan was hatched to load 'pack extenders' (carefully measured & cut RR ties) below the food box, in the foodpack.

I say that to say this: For this idea to work, you have to reach out and connect with those you think would be good trip partners. Just begin communicating. There is a place for 'profiles', which can be a beginning point. Having said that, I haven't done a profile on myself, because I've posted enough on here, that most are able to form an opinion of whether or not they would like to trip with me. There is also a feature that allows you to go back and review posts of anyone you choose. Undecided

Prouty, MT, others, I think I would enjoy tripping with you guys. If you're interested, let me know. This years plan is in the can, but I'm open about 2014 and beyond... Cool
  
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Reply #11 - Apr 25th, 2013 at 6:18am
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I've shared rides and or met up with people for a night or two at some chosen lake and that's always enjoyable when it's doable. Did a three week trip with 'some guy I met in the internet' one year as my wife liked to tell it. We shared a campsite for a night the year before. It was a great trip. Hell, it was even a good trip. I agreed to it based on a trip report Tripper wrote that sounded a whole lot like what I normally do so we decided on a trip that neither of us would have tackled alone. He still stops by when he's in town and I'm always happy when he does.

The profile thread is helpful but a trip report or two is even more helpful in considering if there might be a good match.

The hardest thing for us was figuring out who's gear to take. I think we sent pictures back and forth and still spent a day deciding, combining and packing before we left.


I'm curious prouboy. Why wouldn't you invite back a few that had joined you in the past? That would probably be good information to share up front.
  
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Reply #12 - Apr 25th, 2013 at 10:38am
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Old Salt wrote on Apr 25th, 2013 at 12:46am:
Prouty, MT, others, I think I would enjoy tripping with you guys. Cool


Feelings mutual OS

You would like Mike Prouty......energetic, upbeat, easy smiling sort of bloke. Good conversationalist.
  
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Reply #13 - Apr 25th, 2013 at 11:51am
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you are always taking a chance with a "blind date" - the more people involved, the higher the likelihood that you won't mesh with all of them


an alternative could be to join a canoe club, do some trips with those people, and then you would have a better idea of how compatible those people might be

there are a couple of clubs in Mpls. area - not sure if they do flatwater trips/BWCA or not - but it would give you other opportunites to paddle, and a way to meet potential partners that you would at least have done day trips with

does not even have to be a local club - our club has memebrs from several different states who may come out for a trip or two, so maybe WI or IA clubs could work also


  
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Reply #14 - Apr 25th, 2013 at 1:06pm
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Interesting comments. Finding good matches for extended wilderness trips is not easy. And, seems to me, is getting harder. One reason it is getting harder is that lots of folks I have gone with have aged a little and think they do not want to go. Another reason folks opt out is the trip they took was tougher than they had expected. Boundary Waters Journal did a series on finding good travel companions. Other folks seemed to find the same "truths" I did.

From this site, I've met Spartan 1 and Spartan 2. Good folks and I would travel with them, though I suspect they would not travel with me as I go farther and harder than they. While I have never met Jimbo, I suspect he and I would get along, though I'll be damned if I'll carry pink flamingos through the bush.
  
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Reply #15 - Apr 25th, 2013 at 3:13pm
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though I'll be damned if I'll carry pink flamingos through the bush.



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Reply #16 - Apr 25th, 2013 at 5:25pm
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Puckster wrote on Apr 24th, 2013 at 9:58pm:


I wouldn't invite back a few who have joined us in the past.

I bumped into my family physician at a gas station and (knowing he paddled the BWCA) invited him on a whim.  He agreed!  Go figure.

Each new year, another adventure patching a foursome together. 

prouboy


P_B Kept trying. You never know where you'll find a great tripping partner. Make the best of each trip though.

I found a guy who'd gone to a LLC family cabin for years and was always curious where all those canoes were going.
Took him once, and he loved it. Game for anything or just taking it easy.

db, My "not again guys" are mostly the Passive Aggressive type. They won't take the responsibility of expressing their wants because they want to save the option of complaining if it doesn't work out. So far I've always given these guys a second chance trip. When they start complaining I lay out the options we have from where we are. But they still fail to make any commitment other than following. I just encourage them to do their own trips now. Some might, some won't.
  
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Reply #17 - Apr 25th, 2013 at 10:22pm
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My stomping ground is Woodland Caribou and so it would seem hard to form a group. I have found that posting my intentions far in advance makes a big difference. I have been tripping the last few years with paddlers I came to know through a few different canoe forums. Often times paddlers come and go during some of my longer trips. Making it clear to everyone what kind of trip it will be is important. You can't predict how a new group of paddlers will mesh but with enough pre-trip communication and a willingness to address issues as they arise during the trip we have had some fantastic journeys.
  
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Reply #18 - Apr 26th, 2013 at 12:08am
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Hey Old Salt
I am still hoping to meet up with you somewhere in the Falls chain. You are coming in on the 22nd and I am leaving on the 23rd. You will be the first to get a trip report on the bushwhack to Gamp lake. Where do you plan to camp your first night?
Jon
  
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Reply #19 - Apr 26th, 2013 at 12:12am
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mastertangler wrote on Apr 25th, 2013 at 10:38am:
Old Salt wrote on Apr 25th, 2013 at 12:46am:
Prouty, MT, others, I think I would enjoy tripping with you guys. Cool


Feelings mutual OS

I've met Prouty, and he is a great guy. I think most of us would enjoy tripping with him.

However, I've not met MT, but perhaps one day our paddles will cross paths...

You would like Mike Prouty......energetic, upbeat, easy smiling sort of bloke. Good conversationalist.

  
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