Thanks, ST. Perhaps I will check out that book myself.

While it is difficult, I think I have maintained a positive attitude through all of this, and I know it is a good thing. Obviously, a surgery of this magnitude on one's heart CAN go wrong, and I know that there is a small percentage of very serious complications that can result, even death. However, having said that, I do have confidence in my surgeon, and I am not expecting those complications. In my imagination, I see myself post-surgery, following orders so that I can have a successful recovery. I do know that rehab will be necessary, and it will be work. But I have rehabbed three artificial joints, so I am not unacquainted with pushing a bit, and dealing with pain.
Life is good here. Spartan1 just celebrated the 11th anniversary of his kidney transplant yesterday.

We sent a big fruit basket (as we always do) to his donor, Leslie, and she called last evening to thank us. She is healthy and enjoying life, and so is my husband. Just another blessing of modern medicine.