25 Canoeing marriages (Read 28338 times)
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Reply #20 - Nov 7th, 2005 at 1:25am
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In July 2004 my wife and I took our honeymoon in the BW, her suggestion.  I had never been and she had been several times while she was a student at the U of M Duluth.  We returned this summer for our anniversary and plan to make a BW trip our yearly anniversery tradition.
She is an excellent navigator and has had to calm me down on several occasions, now I have learned to just trust her skills.  She has an excellent sence of humor, last summer an overehanging brach on a portage "turtled" her with her heavy pack.  As a husband you do not want to laugh, but as a friend and travel companion that is funny as hell Grin.  Luckly she was the first one to laugh.  She was also the first one to laugh on the next portage when I face planted into a bog after slipping off a "walking" log Undecided.  I taught her to fly fish and she her first fish on a fly this summer, a nice 15" smallie.  I look foreward to mny more trips with her!
  
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Reply #21 - Feb 16th, 2006 at 4:58pm
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Amy and I have been together for three years. We are not yet married but one day will be.

Last year was her first BWCAW trip. We went with another couple. It was the first trip for them as well. We will not be returning with them, but Amy and I leave on the evening of May 31st for a June 1st entry.

We are going alone this time, her decision. I foresee many more trips. She is just as excited as I am.

The best part of our trip last year was when we left the base camp on North Wilder and made our way, alone, to South Wilder for three days.
  
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Reply #22 - Feb 16th, 2006 at 6:10pm
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I remember the Wilder Lakes area very fondly. We were there on a sunny day and the water lilies were stupendous!

  
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Reply #23 - Feb 16th, 2006 at 8:56pm
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My wife and I canoe and kayak together all the time, usually taking our Pointer along. Our trips are generally day trips to local lakes and reservoirs. She paddles under the name "Minnkota, the Canoe Godess", a handle I gave her due to her excellent trolling motor imitation! Penny, my Pointer, rides as "Ballast, the Canoe Dog".  Grin

Despite enjoying our day trips, she isn't generally interested in "roughing it". We do weekend canoe camping trips, along with more frequent canoe & car camping trips. We got engaged in Killarney PP, on a canoe & cabin trip. Also last year she DID accompany me on a five day Upper Missouri trip in Montana, her longest ever, but she hasn't been bugging me to go again. She likes her modern comforts, which is fine. We generally do a trip in her interests each year, like Jamaica, Mexico, etc. And she doesn't pester me about taking trips on my own - like Wabakimi this spring.

It works out for us, although I will admit I wish she was more interested in the Q. I'd love to share that with her. But before we met she had zero camping experience, so I'm holding out hope that one day she might get to the point that she becomes more interested. Until then, we enjoy our shorter, local trips.

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Reply #24 - Feb 16th, 2006 at 9:05pm
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I also had zero camping experience (also almost-zero canoeing) before my first trip.  But it only took one trip to make a believer out of me!  Thirty-four years later. . . . .

I wrote up our story for the short-story feature in the next BWJ.  When it is rejected, I will post it on QJ.
  
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Reply #25 - Feb 17th, 2006 at 11:28pm
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My wife and I were just dating when we first started paddling together. It was something we generally did in nice weather as day trips, on lakes and rivers around our home and sometimes when traveling.

So far we have taken 3 canoe camping trips together, the only ones either has gone on. One in wabakimi, quetico, and bwca each. We have dabbled in running whitewater a little bit tandem and solo also. I would say we enjoy paddling now as much as ever. It seems the more we learn the greater our enjoyment.  Grin Grin
  
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Reply #26 - Feb 21st, 2006 at 8:41pm
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Is it possible not to love someone able to (You need to Login or Register to view media files and links) and can literally (You need to Login or Register to view media files and links) just because you told 'em it's fun?
  
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Reply #27 - Feb 22nd, 2006 at 12:53am
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two pictures.....2000 words.  that sums it up!   Smiley
  
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Reply #28 - Feb 22nd, 2006 at 2:46pm
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It's really cool to see that they are couples willing to endure the adventure togethor. My wife personally thinks I'm crazy even though she is curious to see the area. (The lack of a toilet scares the hell out of her) In fact most of my friends male or female think that our small group the goes are not quite right in the head.
  
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Reply #29 - Feb 22nd, 2006 at 4:09pm
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Perhaps you could take her to the BWCA first, and if she had the pit toilet there it would be an introduction.  Then if you wanted to try the Q she would already be hooked!

I am female, 60 years old, and have been hooked for 35 years!  I am richly blessed to have a husband who does more than 50% of the work, but I do work hard contribute a great deal.  I can't imagine, this many years later, our marriage or our lives without our canoe trips.  We don't "endure the adventure" we "embrace the adventure".

Tell her I said to give it a try just once!
  
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