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Reply #40 - Feb 26th, 2006 at 8:51pm
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Hey, maybe all this solar shower stuff needs to be on the "Gear" thread.  Do you think? ???

Maybe I am just jealous--I don't think I could get Spartan1 to bother with all of this.   Undecided

We do manage to get clean occasionally.

  
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Reply #41 - Feb 26th, 2006 at 9:36pm
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Hmm, we do not see it as much of bother, It rolls up pretty small and the weight is pretty negligible. The creature comfort far out weighs the small space it takes and the tiny amount of weight.

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Reply #42 - Feb 26th, 2006 at 10:07pm
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Well, I'm willing to give it a try.  Perhaps I will go shopping. . .
  
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Reply #43 - Feb 27th, 2006 at 6:20pm
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The other idea, although you do have to use gas guzzling boats. But is still a compromise is the Houseboat in that Voyageur National Park just West of the area we all love. Showers, waterslides, Beds, Heat, Stove, Oven, Hot Tub, plus I am sure you could bring a canoe to get off the beaten path on day trips. Not bad for a compromise.
  
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Reply #44 - May 21st, 2006 at 2:21pm
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Having done 3 trips into Q, in the last 5 years,2 with just my wife and myself, 1 with another couple, I am in the last stages of packing for another trip. This one is with my cousin on a fishing trip, as my wife does not have as much time off as me, and needs it for a family commitment in the fall. This trip feels different, the shopping for and planning meals is different, the planning it's self is more low key, the packing is more subdued. I am looking forward to the trip, but in a different way than the other trips with "US".
As for the solar shower chat, we take one with us all the time. We us the lake, but nothing says refreshing more than a warm shower.
  
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Reply #45 - May 22nd, 2006 at 11:42am
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Congrats to all of those couples that paddle together!  My husband took me for the first time six years ago.  We had been married for less than a year.  I knew when I met him that Quetico was one of his most treasured areas.  Although I had never camped before, I was eager to see what this place was all about.  I fell in love!  Not only with Quetico, but deeper in love with my husband if that were truly possible.  I admired his determination and his ability to take me under his wing.  He showed me country that I had never seen before, wildlife that I had never experienced, and even taught me the correct way to use the bathroom in the woods.  If that isn't true love, I don't know what is!  We have been back to Quetico every year since 2000.  Sometimes with groups, but usually one for just the two of us and then another with friends or family.  I value that alone time with him!  I couldn't ask for a better partner in a canoe or in life for that matter.  If anyone is headed up to Quetico June 11-16, look for us.  We'll be the couple that not only loves Quetico, but each other tremendously.
  
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Reply #46 - May 22nd, 2006 at 11:48am
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So glad to hear from you, firstmate5!  You and I have a lot in common.  You can read my story in the spring issue of Boundary Waters Journal, or perhaps at a later date on this site.

Like you, I owe a great deal to my paddling partner.

  
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Reply #47 - May 22nd, 2006 at 12:02pm
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I have written just like you an account of every trip taken.  I have not only a written account, but the photos that go along with it.  I would love to get one of my stories published in the Boundary Waters magazine.  (My husband and I fight over the issues when they arrive.  I love that magazine!)  Is it difficult to get them published???  I am sick that I set my article on my favorite canoe partner in too late.  Thanks for an information that you can provide.
  
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Reply #48 - Jun 1st, 2006 at 1:26am
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My husband introduced me to the boundary waters.  Since then I have been the one to research, plan our trips, and do the navigating.  I've gotten so good at planning out the food that he even wants me to help him with the food when he goes with his buddies.  We have done 4 day trips up to 8 day trips.  One trip we covered 60miles.  Once we get the rhythm down we work together really well.  In fact we get along better in the bwca than we do on a project at home.  Both of us have gone up with friends and I did a solo last year, but we both agree our favorite trips are when we are together.
  
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Reply #49 - Jun 1st, 2006 at 9:41am
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firstmate5:  I have found it very difficult to get anything into Boundary Waters Journal!  Stu and I don't see eye to eye on what people want to read, and he rarely publishes photos that actually go with a particular story, so having photos taken on your trip is not all that helpful.

It is hard for me to make photos that would appeal to him, since he really wants only photos with people doing things together (there are only two of us and one is the photographer), photos of canoes (again, there are only two of us, so if I am on shore taking the photo, I am not in the canoe. . .) and photos of people holding up big fish (we don't fish).

Of course, I cannot comment on the quality of either your writing or your photography, but I will tell you I have tried several times and gotten nothing but rejection.  The piece in the spring issue wasn't a "paid" submission--he may have printed everything that people sent in.  I was pleased and surprised that it appeared in the magazine.

I would certainly encourage you to submit something and give it a try.  Just have a very thick skin when you read his comments regarding your work!   Wink

Several regulars on QJ have had articles published, so perhaps some of them will respond to your inquiry and give you good advice. 

My trip journals have a narrative and several hundred photos.  Some of our friends read them every year, but mainly they are just for us--for the memories.  We are 61 now and we probably can't continue to do this for too many more decades.  (But we hope to keep it up a good time longer.)

aje:  it is interesting to hear your comments.  I have never canoed with anyone other than my husband, and cannot imagine (at my advanced age) ever wanting to do a solo!  Good for you!

Our longest trip was 22 days.  At the end, I was in tears because I didn't want it to end.  I have people tell me that they couldn't spend 22 days in "solitary" with their spouse doing ANYTHING, but I guess if you are doing something you love, and your spouse is your best friend. . . . . .

We love "newbies" on this board.  You should consider, if you find the board interesting, becoming an Inukshuk.  It supports the QJ site, and it gives us the opportunity to communicate through the IM, in case the topic is something that might not be of general interest to everyone.
  
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