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Re: Planning for my wife's first trip to BWCA
Reply #10 - Oct 20th, 2009 at 11:10pm
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DeanoD,

It's funny you mentioned working in Lumber Yard and lifting heavy things on a regular basis.
I worked commercial construction for 15 years, and even though I worked hard everyday ( we specialized in cement construction), I had ALL my back issues during that time!
Unlike a gym, often in the real world work environment, you can't always practice safe lifting/pulling practices. Your working on ladders/slopes/mud/ in confined areas. Sooner or later you hurt yourself, and often it stays with you for life.
 Mid 30's I got lucky and fell into a healthier lifestyle, which included daily exercise of some kind. My sore back eventually went away and I make sure it's not coming back.
 I'm a firm believer in being  PROACTIVE with my health and fitness, rather than RE-ACTIVE. It is a lot easier to stay in shape, than get in shape.  Couples that take care of themselves are much better at taking care of each other.
 There are "benefits" to being fit and healthy that have nothing to do with paddling  Wink
 Good Luck with your Health/Fitness plan. We'll EXPECT a trip report Grin
  
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Re: Planning for my wife's first trip to BWCA
Reply #11 - Oct 20th, 2009 at 11:26pm
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DeanoD wrote on Oct 15th, 2009 at 2:37pm:
Hey all,

It's time to start the planning for my wife's first trip to the BWCA next summer.  

I want to make this an enjoyable trip for her.  

Deano


Leave her at home. Grin

Kidding aside... I applaud your efforts to be thinking of her ahead of time.  Though know matter how hard you try...she may at times think... "Why did I agree to this?"  Hopefully your wife will get past that stage and begin to appreciate what we know and love.

On this one... Keeping you in my prayers.

k
  
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Re: Planning for my wife's first trip to BWCA
Reply #12 - Oct 21st, 2009 at 1:15am
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Well. . . .some of us wives have been going and loving it for decades, K!    TongueSmiley  (and yes, at first I had my doubts.   But they didn't last long.) 

Yes, DeanoD, MSU fans, both Spartan1 and me.  Alums.  We met on the student Rose Bowl tour in '65-66 on a Greyhound Bus headed for Pasadena.  Where are you from in Michigan?

  
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Re: Planning for my wife's first trip to BWCA
Reply #13 - Oct 21st, 2009 at 2:44am
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We live in the beautiful port town of Ludington!  My Pops earned his PhD from MSU in horticulture and taught at the University of Idaho (where I was born and attended even though I only lived there are short while of my life) and Purdue University.  So, I cheer on the Boilers sometimes...but am a Spartan fan through and through... I actually thought we'd be in a New Year's Day bowl this year....I'm truly an optimist.

My dad (we lost him in December of last year) was the one who introduced me to the Boudary Waters in '74 when he took us boys on a trip in.  I still have the receipts.  As I recall the plane ride in cost him $52 for all of us....

Before he died he told me the one thing in his life he wished he would have continued to do was the wilderness canoeing and camping.  He then handed me my new #4 Duluth Pack and all his old packs.  No promises needed.

He had the opportunity to be introduced to the Quetico by Lou Leopold, a colleague at Purdue and one of Aldo's sons.  I only met Lou when I was a boy, but I have my dad's notes of their trip in.  His daily log is interesting and consisted of a lot of detail in plants, animals and weather. 

The North Country is in my blood.  I sit in the evening and read Sigurd Olson's "Loons of Lac LaCroix" and remember how they cried and laughed for me and my sons in '06 as we stayed on the island across from Warrior Hill.

I'm anxious to go back.  Anxious to share this awesome land with my wife. 

Thanks again for all the thoughts and I look forward to planning this and many more trips with all of your input.

Deano
  
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Re: Planning for my wife's first trip to BWCA
Reply #14 - Oct 23rd, 2009 at 12:19am
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Spartan2 wrote on Oct 21st, 2009 at 1:15am:
Well. . . .some of us wives have been going and loving it for decades, K!    TongueSmiley  (and yes, at first I had my doubts.   But they didn't last long.)  


S2, You got me.... oops.  Truth is an ex girl friend introduced me to paddling the North.  Huh  She presented a whole new standard for the girls in my life to live up to.  Boy, did this revelation just sneak up on me... You Ladies of the North and those that love to paddle, Rock!

Thx for telling it like it is.

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Re: Planning for my wife's first trip to BWCA
Reply #15 - Oct 23rd, 2009 at 7:47am
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DeanoD wrote on Oct 15th, 2009 at 2:37pm:
I want to make this an enjoyable trip for her.

When our wives and GFs first asked to come along we seriously tried to poo-poo the idea. We didn't want to be responsible if they didn't have a good time. After we considered the plus side, we wanted all our ducks in a row for good reason and once we convinced them that a mid May reconnaissance trip each year would make their late July trips better we (reluctantly Wink) agreed. We hit a lot of new territory during those years.  Grin Smiley Just something to think about.


DeanoD wrote on Oct 21st, 2009 at 2:44am:
but I have my dad's notes of their trip in.  His daily log is interesting and consisted of a lot of detail in plants, animals and weather.

My condolences ... what would your dad think of his son sharing excerpts of his daily log?  I'd be interested if both he and you were willing. Photographs of just the text would be easy and add insight....
  
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Re: Planning for my wife's first trip to BWCA
Reply #16 - Oct 23rd, 2009 at 11:02am
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I find that really interesting, db.  The longer I know Spartan1 the more I realize that he is atypical in a lot of ways.  He was so much the opposite.  He took his first trip with a group of friends and IMMEDIATELY he was after me to make a trip!  I had no interest in canoe-camping, had never spent a night in a tent, was terrified of bugs, and thought he was crazy!  But he kept at it for four years 'til I finally decided it might be fun.

And we didn't start out with a wimpy trip either--no base-camping, no layover day, no tow.  The same Namakan loop trip he took with the guys (except that I said I would NOT do the four-mile Dawson portage so we paddled the Loon River instead.  We walked all portages, though--he thought putting a canoe on that railroad thing was silly.)

I cut my teeth in canoe country the hard way, with traveling every day, trips that ventured into Quetico, trips with old Duluth packs, trips before Therma-rest pads.  And always just the two of us.  

Now. . . .a different story.  I will confess that I was the one who began suggesting taking folding stools when my arthritic knees made squatting at the campfire difficult.  I was the one who suggested that I enjoyed an occasional layover day, primarily because it gave me more time for photography.  I was the one who ended up with back problems so I now have the Big Agnes sleeping bag and the better backpack with hip straps.  But I am still the one who begins planning the next trip on the portages of the current one!  

I guess I am atypical, too.  I like to go in mid-June when the bugs are out in full force.  Fewer people, more flowers.  Campsites are cleaner, less trampled.  The green of the woods is that wonderful spring green. Loons are beginning to take their chicks on the lakes.  Snuggling in my wool shirt with a cup of hot chocolate and watching a misty sunrise.  A twelve-day trip that spans the end of June to the beginning of July is Heaven for me.  I even like to swim in the cold water.  Haven't graduated to a solar shower yet, although I do think that sounds like a great idea if you went in the summer.

Taking your wife can be a real boost to your marriage.   Wink  Alone time under the blue sky (I always try to think positive about the weather when I am planning) is the best bonding time.  We were blessed to have fabulous kid-sitters in Minneapolis, and now have lifelong friends to visit on every trip to canoe country.  Our granddaughter plays with their grandchildren.  

It's been such a great trip for me.  I am so glad I didn't let a few fears keep me away.  38 years later I realize how much my husband changed my life because he didn't decide that canoe tripping was something for "the guys".

Because of his health issues he shouldn't go solo.  (I know he wants to the very worst way.)  I hope I give him alone time enough that sometimes it is the next best thing.  We've become a pretty good team.

Just two cents from one of the few wives on this board.   Smiley



  
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