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Re: Lesson #4 cover up
Reply #40 - Oct 22nd, 2013 at 3:19pm
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S_2 Hope you always share your pictures.

Maybe QJ got a rep from defending some of your smaller subjects  Smiley
  
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Reply #41 - Oct 22nd, 2013 at 3:24pm
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Reputation?  Yeah, maybe.  But if the word applies, then it applies to the sister websites as well.  QJ has a lower percentage of the “I’ve got time to visit, let’s talk about . . .” type of threads in comparison.  You may “like” reading about the dog shows in the Twin Cities or seeing  who wished who a happy b-day, etc.  If so, then QJ might not fit your style.  Personally I am not compelled to congratulate someone for making their 10,000th post.  One well written article in the BWJ has more value.

Cliques? Yeah, maybe.  Fraternity might be a better word, but for the most part, I see the majority of the group preferring to stand individually.   We get a new starting line up every so often and the spike of activity establishes their acquaintance with one another.  The former line up might seem “quiet”, but consider that when any member acknowledges your informative posting, he/she is speaking for any number of members. 

The Search Police? Theirs is a thankless job.  These guys usually display great capacity to sniff out a poster who will gather their research here and then post their thesis there.  It helps the respondants on the other forum to increase their number of postings.

Political forum? It wasn’t always one.  Generally speaking, that is recent.  Once the momentum built, it quickly turned into a spectator sport.  I support the view of hiding it.  The drawback is that I’ve no place to tell you about my dog, my b-day, my drama, my whathaveyou.  Seriously tho, there were many good discussions there, which I miss.

My interests in the forums are trip planning, fishing, and gear.  The rest gets a scan.  Trip reports rate as a favorite.  I know they are time consuming to create.  Your investment is appreciated.  Next would be a good photo sequence complimented with notes.

The time I have to participate on the forums has been quite scarce these past few years.  Work demand is the biggest culprit.  My boss is a corporate VP who has never been to the BW/Q.  If he ever decides to go, I will direct him on the shortest route through Badwater Lake and into the Wolseley Swamp.  He will be advised to make as much noise as possible along the way.  Then I will sit back, image, and delight in typing away at all the possible scenarios of what became of him. 

-YB
  
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Re: Lesson #4 cover up
Reply #42 - Oct 22nd, 2013 at 3:53pm
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Political forum? It wasn't always one.  Generally speaking, that is recent.  Once the momentum built, it quickly turned into a spectator sport.  I support the view of hiding it.  The drawback is that I’ve no place to tell you about my dog, my b-day, my drama, my whathaveyou.  Seriously tho, there were many good discussions there, which I miss


I still think you can find that but like a "cable" show, the first few "episodes/posts" pretty well tells you where the discussion is headed.
Religion/politics/ major social issues are going to bring out the best/worst in people here as they do face to face.

People that frequent the BTC know that regardless of the views ( even conservative/religious ones), the majority of conflict comes about because someone gets personal insulting instead of arguing the merits of their position.
 
Everyone has succumbed to the heat of the moment at one time or the other.
Most apologize and try not to repeat, some need more than one "try". Huh

S_2, I didn't get the impression you were upset, just giving an honest answer to a posed question.
As for your feeling you have less to contribute do to your limited by circumstance travels, I have to respectfully disagree. Wink

Your pictures if you didn't label where they were taken could be anywhere in the North country and is one of the reasons I love the QJ and the POD.
Your eye for nature is a gift and few if any here do it any better.

YB,
IF your boss ever let's you set him up with a Q adventure, I have  a few people in mind for his paddling partner. Grin Grin


  
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Re: Lesson #4 cover up
Reply #43 - Oct 23rd, 2013 at 12:54am
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solotripper wrote on Oct 22nd, 2013 at 3:53pm:
YB,
IF your boss ever let's you set him up with a Q adventure, I have  a few people in mind for his paddling partner. Grin Grin

ST,

I swear the guy can douse a campfire by looking at it. 

Even so, it might just be the ticket for him and your old pals.

-YB
  
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Reply #44 - Oct 23rd, 2013 at 4:23am
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what was it that  that bumper sticker used to say?  ...oh,yeh.  "Mean people suck!"



  
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Reply #45 - Oct 23rd, 2013 at 4:40am
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and what was it that Mick Jagger said about not being able to take a joke?   Seems to me a little 'jacking around' through mild and transparent insults and taunts actually shows acceptance and even' back handed' respect. It is assumed the recipient recognizes that you are playing. ...playing is what you do with someone you like. Wink
  
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Re: Lesson #4 cover up
Reply #46 - Oct 23rd, 2013 at 11:59am
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Even so, it might just be the ticket for him and your old pals.


YB, my ex old paddling buddies were not mean guys, just unable to commit and do any trip as planned. It was like herding cats. Funny at first, frustrating/madding the longer it went on.

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Seems to me a little 'jacking around' through mild and transparent insults and taunts actually shows acceptance and even' back handed' respect. It is assumed the recipient recognizes that you are playing. ...playing is what you do with someone you like.


Key word here is "transparent". When the person/people your "playing" with are not seeing it, then you need to back off.

My personal experience is that type A+ people/bosses, are good at giving but very poor at getting. Wink
  
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Re: Lesson #4 cover up
Reply #47 - Oct 23rd, 2013 at 5:25pm
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Er, back to ticks... Was in Wabakimi area in June and don't recall any (even with lots of brush and moose sign).  Was usually wearing long pants with permithrin, though.  Skeeters, flies and noseeums got their pound of flesh, though!
  
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Re: Lesson #4 cover up
Reply #48 - Oct 24th, 2013 at 2:35am
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wow quite the discussion going on here.

i also have to check QJ daily as part of my routine. its got its own tab that opens on the browser even!

i really appreciate MT starting threads. they are always insightful and promote discussion. plus, he always manages to come up with something new. i really miss the fishing tips of the month!
  
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Re: Lesson #4 cover up
Reply #49 - Oct 24th, 2013 at 1:24pm
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I am a relatively new member of Quiet Journey and enjoy what I find here. I have not paddled in Quetico or the BWCA in years so I do not ever comment on threads concerning them. I read the threads and if I could help someone I would. I visit different  forums and can see that each site over time attracts a like-minded core of participants. QJ had evolved into a "Quetico" site before I started visiting. My destination is usually WCPP but I have always felt welcome here. No matter where we paddle in central North America the equipment and skills are similar so there is a lot to learn on any of the sites.

IMO every site will end up with a "reputation" and that is not a bad thing as long as the reputation is not one of meanness or elitism. I have seen sites where certain postings would bring out the same biting criticism every time. On QJ a posting on using a double blade or a GPS does not draw such animosity. I hope this thread has given everyone a gentle prod to be courteous and to examine our words before hitting "Post Message."
  
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